Fast-paced life and work, freedom, independence, do not settle, lazy, creating a long-term solitary life.There are many flavors of living alone, most of the time is feeling free, it really is their own little world, do not care about anyone, and not afraid to affect anyone, I can be a little sloppy I can also be a little tidy, busy when the home is a pigsty, you can not fold the quilt for a few days were not washing dishes not sweeping, you can stay up late at night until two o’clock, you can sleep in the morning until 12 o’clock, happy when you can open a big stereo hi. This is the great benefit of living alone, freedom.

But along with the freedom of living alone comes loneliness. There was a time when I was dominated by loneliness, the pain of not being able to be still, the decrepit body and mind, coming home from work and mechanically brushing some boring cell phone content, not chatting with friends, constantly a psychological implication, ah how I am so lonely, as if no one cares about me. That heart-wrenching general pain, gradually turned into a deadly cycle.

In fact, life is lonely, the best way is to accept it.

I started to make some changes, and these small changes made my solitary life a little better, and I enjoyed and cherished this freedom and solitude more.

I am a person who is not used to waking up early. Every day I get up at the point of work, get up and go out in a hurry, and it is too late to eat breakfast, but I found that waking up an hour early not only allows me to eat breakfast comfortably, but more importantly, creates an hour of time for myself. We sometimes feel like the walking dead, that may be from the morning of the day, on the mechanical rush to go out of time. Waking up an hour early gives me enough time to wake up my brain and body, so I can read a little or record my thoughts, which is my own time in the morning.

Keeping the house tidy, I used to work overtime and arrive home late, and I wouldn’t do any housework when I got home, so I would just lie down and brush my phone to sleep, and then focus on cleaning on the weekend, basically I would spend most of the weekend cleaning and organizing the house, but the result of the cleaning would be that two days later it was already very dirty, mainly because I was taking things with me and putting them away, and the two cats in the house were making a mess. And if one weekend will go out to play and no time to clean, the house will be even more sloppy. Now I’ve gotten into the habit of keeping my house clean and tidy, so I spend about ten minutes doing chores every day when I get home, and my house is always clean and fresh, and when people stay inside, they’re in a clean and fresh mood.

Insert a bunch of flowers again, girls, to give yourself flowers, flowers beauty is also beautiful.

The actual fact is that you’ll be able to get a good deal on your own life, make a list of books you like, learn about financial management, or what you want to do in the short and long term, get home on time from work, open your own little world, no longer addicted to social networking, less use of cell phones, enjoy and cherish the time you spend with yourself, and solitude, love life and love yourself.