Inevitably, there will be conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, how should they be resolved?When I didn’t join the platform to learn, I often quarreled with my mother-in-law and had conflicts with each other that could not be resolved for many years!I often complained about my mother-in-law and would only look at their flaws, not their strengths. I think about myself, but I don’t think about my mother-in-law’s feelings.

I often think about my mother-in-law’s shortcomings, but I don’t know how to reflect on them! You are also very unreasonable, how can you still pick on others?

When one’s thinking changes, there will be no conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law!

Since I joined the platform, I know that I can’t take everything to the extreme, I can’t always think about other people’s shortcomings, I have to learn to think differently so that my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can have a harmonious relationship!

Some time ago, a friend and I said that she and her mother-in-law relationship is very bad, her mother-in-law said something to her lover, the couple will fight. My friend also hates her mother-in-law, except for the New Year, the holidays, she went to her mother-in-law’s house, usually do not go at all.

And she also said that her mother-in-law often pick on her. I told her that to have a good relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, your mother-in-law can’t change, you have to learn to change yourself!

With such tips, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will get along well!

No. 1 is: to communicate with your mother-in-law often, your mother-in-law and we are, after all, two generations of people, it is impossible to think the same as us! The mother-in-law can not change, we ourselves must often learn to change themselves.

What is wrong with the mother-in-law, we have to understand her. Communicate more with your mother-in-law! More communication, no conflict between each other, the relationship will be harmonious!

The second is: what is going on between your mother-in-law, do not snitch with your man, so that your man will also be more resentful, can solve their own, solve their own, do not give their men additional burden!

No. 3 is: when you go out, pick a small gift for your mother-in-law, even if it is not expensive, but your mother-in-law will be very happy!

No. 4 is: will say good things, even if the mother-in-law said something, not good, we do not contradict her! Even if she says that the cucumber is from the tree, we should go along with her! Cucumbers are originally from trees! Haha!

Action to persuade the mother-in-law, over time, mutual understanding, there is no generation gap!

The 5th is: do not show love in front of your mother-in-law and your own man, and do not tell your man what to do in front of your mother-in-law. This mother-in-law will hate her daughter-in-law. Son is someone’s baby, at our disposal, her heart will not feel comfortable ah!

No. 6 is: they must be financially independent, women are only financially independent, personality will be independent. Economic independence, do not spend the man’s money, what qualification does the mother-in-law have to pick on us?

With the money we earn, buy gifts for your mother-in-law, what will she do in her heart? The actual fact is that you will be able to get a lot more than just a few of these.

If you have a conflict with your mother-in-law, you can use the above tips to resolve it!

If there is no conflict with your mother-in-law, she will not pick on your son, so that the couple will be cordial!

As long as you put your mind to it, change yourself, there will be no more conflicts between your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law!

Learn to respect your mother-in-law. Don’t impose your hobbies and likes on others. What you like your mother-in-law does not necessarily like!