After the opening of the second child, I watched people around me have second children, and at the age of nearly 40, I also joined the fun and gave birth to my young son.However, birth is simple, parenting is difficult, so in my 40s, I often listen to online classes, read books, and summarize the following parenting tips.1. Be tolerant of your child’s feelings and strict discipline of your child’s behavior.When a child is afraid of something, or hate and other different feelings, we should be tolerant, because everyone’s heart tolerance is different, everyone’s perception and feelings are different, we can not because the child’s feelings are different from their own to blame them.

When a child behaves badly, we have to stop it firmly. Especially when it comes to behaviors that violate our principles, we must not compromise.

2. Teach your child not to swear

Children who love to swear not only fail to make friends, but also will be disliked and isolated by the surrounding children and parents. Parents should set a good example for their children by not swearing.

3. Do not spoil your child

We all love our children, but we must not spoil them. Spoiling your child is harming him or her, and will deprive him or her of the opportunity to grow in frustration and to develop bad habits and character. When we are old and incapable of protecting him, it will be difficult for the child to gain a foothold in society.

4. Can not accommodate the child’s unreasonable demands

It is often said: strict is love, spoiled is bad, regardless of not taught to become bad.

For the child’s request, you can not just accommodate, obedient. Let your child understand that he or she is not the center of the world and that not everyone will be obedient to him or her.

5. Let your child develop good hygiene habits

Let your child know that bad hygiene habits not only tend to make him or her sick, but also that a child who lives in a sloppy manner is not welcome.

6. Guide your child not to be jealous, but to be tolerant and humble

Guide your child not to be jealous of other people’s strengths and advantages, but to use them as an example and motivation to improve themselves and their own shortcomings and deficiencies.

7. Respect your child, don’t control him/her

Each child is an individual and has his or her own way of thinking. Parents should respect their ideas and choices, and not try to control them with adult thinking.

8. Treat children equally, don’t look down on them

Treat your child as an equal as you would treat a friend, and don’t look down on your child’s thoughts and behaviors as an adult. Make your child feel that you are not equal to him.

For example, apologize to the parent when the child does something wrong. When a parent wrongly blames a child, he or she should also promptly admit the mistake to the child.

9. Let your child know that it is not easy to earn money and spend it wisely

When you take your child to the mall, the wide range of toys will arouse a strong desire to buy, we should usually let children know that it is not easy to earn money, guide children to spend reasonably, not to see the toys or things you like to buy, to save money.

10. Appropriate to show weakness to the child is also a kind of wisdom

We should not act strong and omnipotent in front of our children just because we are adults. Showing proper weakness in front of our children can stimulate their desire for protection and sense of responsibility. This will help children to develop the responsibility to protect their parents and family, to consciously help their parents to share the household chores, and to automatically think of solutions when they encounter difficulties.

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